Monday, March 24, 2008

March 24 1pm

Neil is in surgery as I write this. They have completed the surgery for the "umbrella". This is put in place to catch any blood clots. By having this, the doctor will be able to reduce the blood thinner Neil has to have. We understand this device is good for a year or so. They have now started the procedure to place the permanent mesh over his abdomen. The doctor plans on tightening the abdomen. The best scenario would be for the doctor to be able to close the abdomen. He does not think he will be able to do this because of the swelling due to fluid retention. We anticipate we will hear from the doctor in the next hour or so. Wow, we are going to be the most patient people in the world. I did not brag earlier, but in the morning visit Neil was able to move both legs. This took great concentration and effort. The nurses explained due to the horrific trauma Neil's body has experienced and the total sedation for three weeks, it will take much time for Neil to regain any strength. He can squeeze our hand but even that is an effort for him. We are so very proud of Neil and DeAnn.

One thing I have not mentioned is Kenneth's mother spends a lot of time with us. She is the "resident" grandmother. She makes sure everyone is eating (whether you want to or not) and makes sure things are straight in the motor home. She is a blessing to all of us.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

YES, AS WE (GINGER & I) KNOW MS. AGNES WILL HAVE YOU EAT HUNGRY OR NOT!!!!! SHE IS A SPECIAL LADY! NEIL, WE ARE SOOOO VERY PROUD OF YOU AND DEANN WE ARE ALSO PROUD OF YOU!!! THE LOVE AND STRENGHT YOU NEED WILL GET YOU BOTH THRU THIS DIFFICULT TIME AND MAKE YOUR LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER STRONGER!!!!! WE ARE THINKING OF YOU EVERY MINUTE OR EVERY HOUR AND PRAYING CONSTANTLY,
LOVE YOU GUYS,
GINGER & VANESSA
FIRST FINANCIAL

Anonymous said...

I'm excited that Neil can move his legs. Baby steps, remember that, baby steps. God has his own timeline and purpose for all of this. I would have known that Aunt Agnes was there even though you didn't mention it. I know first hand that grandmothers are a true gift from God, being one myself. Ha.
Lynn

Anonymous said...

We are continuing to pray for Neil and his wonderful family each day. Pintlala Baptist Church has added Neil to our prayer list. Your faith and courage is truly inspiring to me. May God continue to bless each of you.

Frank Ellis
frankellis@hughes.net